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Even if you have all of the steps of a perfect date down, you need to find a date to practice them on. In todays high paced and internet based world that may be difficult. The success at the bar and club scene is limited, especially if you are looking to start a serious relationship. How can you meet new people if you dont ever see new people? You cant so the answer is to widen your circle.

Try volunteering. Pick a cause that is near and dear to your heart and volunteer. Chances are you are going to meet up with a large group of like minded people, and possibly some dating material. If they are at the volunteering event, it is because they are passionate about the same things you are, and that is a great starting point for a conversation and a relationship.
Join a club. If you have an interest or a hobby than go out and find a club for it. Meetup.com can lead you to all types of organizations that meet in real life. Again, finding someone who has the same interests ad you will help you to talk to them comfortably, and the repeated exposure that a club offers will give you more than one chance to get them to notice you.

Join a gym. By joining a gym, you arent only going to make yourself look better, and therefore more appealing to a potential date, but you will get a chance to meet people. Join a class that isnt unisex and you will be met with a million ways to talk to someone. If your male, try joining a yoga class. If you are honestly trying to keep up in the class, women are going to take notice, and possibly talk to you about it. If you are female, why not join a boxing class? You will probably be the only woman in a room full of men, and they will all be watching to see how you keep up. You might even have some offers of outside instruction.
There are other people out there looking for love. You are not the only one. You just need to stop visiting the same tired old scenes, because they are filled with the same tired, old people.