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When you are getting to know someone, and you move in for the first kiss, you realize that this is the defining moment of the entire date. They can either deny or return the kiss, and you can either make the kiss memorable because it was so good, or because it was so absolutely horrid. You should always try to do the former. Having a partner who is a good kisser is like finding gold. Here are the three worst ways to kiss your date.

Dont be a slobbery kisser. If the thought of kissing your date makes your mouth water, take a second to get it under control. Nobody likes to have their face feeling like it was attacked by an octopus after a date. Keep the spittle in check, and if you cant, then go for a closed mouth kiss, and try to move that into something more. Kissing is kind of like a dance, try to move in sync with your partner, and dont step on their toes. Well, in kissing it is dont slobber on their face.

Avoid the protruding tongue. Most of us love a good French kiss, but a bad French kiss is just, well, bad. The person that shoves their tongue further into the others mouth doesnt emerge victorious. The tongue should be used to accentuate the rest of the kiss, not to define it. If your tongue touches their uvula, youre going a little too far.
If you are going to attempt a French kiss, try to remember not to be the spastic kisser either. You are not a lizard, and your tongue shouldnt flick, at least not in kissing. The point is to slow and speed up the kiss intermittently. If you are just kissing like a spastic monkey, there is no dance, and your partner cant respond. A good, passionate kiss rests on the laurels of both participants. It isnt a race. Take your time.

The key factor in any good kiss is to feel the passion, and not the nerves. Slow down take a deep breath and feel those feelings in your loins. Those will move you to deliver a smooth passionate kiss that Casanova would be proud of. Just remember it is a dance, and give your partner a little credit.