OPAN BG

Girls, almost all of us know how it feels to have the man we love checking out other women. Be it in real life, on the television, or at a strip club it still hurts, and it should, right? No, it shouldnt. It hurts because we are looking at those things through the eyes of a woman, and a society that has mixed views on sex.

Men dont think of watching pornography as cheating. Why? Because it isnt, they arent going off to LA to meet with the star of the movies, and they are going to you for their sexual needs, when they involve emotions. For men, sex is separable from emotions. They choose to be monogamous, because they have feelings, but without it their biological code is telling them to spread their seed.

Thats right, their biological code is designed differently than ours. We drop an egg once every 28 days. They create more sperm every day. We have the chance to create a baby once every 28 days, and they can do it once every 24 hours. There is a reason for this. The men can spread their seeds far and wide, and thus give their blood line dominance. Of course that is in an animalistic world. In our human world, things are different. It doesnt change the fact that by ignoring the need to spread his seed, he is ignoring is natural instinct in order to stay faithful to you.

Their instinct is to be attracted to many other women. It isnt a reflection on you, or what they wanted you to look like. Most guys could go out and get a stripper if they wanted one, there are plenty of them out there, working their way through life. There was something about you that he thought was important enough to make the decision to be monogamous with you.

Women fantasize about other men all the time, but it may not always be active. It could be a simple comment about such and such celebrity, but it is the same. Men simply have the ability to go a step beyond that and actually become aroused. If more women were open to pornography, then we would probably understand what it truly is, and that is a form of entertainment. I am sure our men wouldnt object to it either.